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A weekly podcast that features personal stories of trauma healing, transformation, and the gifts revealed on the path to authenticity.

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Gender & Identity, From Unconscious to Conscious with Valerie (Vimalasara) Mason-John and Jordan Decker

This thought provoking conversation explores relating through the LGBTQ+ lens, but not only presented to that community. Instead it is a vulnerable and honest sharing in which Vimalarara and Jordan offer insights and perspectives rarely disclosed to the heteronormative population. In this inclusive episode they touch on the:

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Reducing Relationship Issues Through Proactive Design & Planning, with Dr Stan Tatkin and Leila Bahri-Lucas

This episode reminds us that the unconscious processes that drive humans, our memories and survival instincts, often lead to misunderstandings and reactive behaviors. Consequently, most relationship issues, while they may seem personal, actually stem from our innate drives. Stan outlines that rather than being approached casually, successful relationships require deliberate design, shared purpose, defined roles, and agreed-upon principles.  

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Polyamory: Attachment, Trauma and Relational Growth Unpacked, with Jessica Fern, David Cooley & JP Bolhuis

This episode  introduces Polyamory, a form of consensual non-monogamy, as a relational style involving multiple loving, consensual, romantic partners simultaneously. It emphasizes trust, open communication (as opposed to secretive ‘cheating’) and mutual agreement. Jessica and David, themselves polyamory practitioners and co-authors of two books on Polyamory, are joined by JP Bolhuis, a Psychosocial Therapist, Compassionate Inquiry Practitioner and Private Mentor who recently entered the world of polyamory.

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Rethinking Sex Addiction: Trauma, Shame & Compulsive Sexuality, with Diana Safta & Silva Neves

In this soft and flowing conversation, Silva Neves differentiates the term “sex addiction” from “sexual compulsivity,” as addiction is an independent disorder, while compulsion arises from environmental distress. Like food, sex is a primary drive, and has a natural physiological stopping point  not present in other addictions. The analogy of food and diverse cuisines to normalize conversations about sexuality, highlighting that different tastes and preferences in food are accepted, but similar differences in sexuality are often judged.

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Healing Northern Ireland: From Personal Trauma to Societal Change, with Dr Paul Gallagher

In this conversation, Kevin introduces us to Dr Paul Gallagher, a lecturer in trauma studies at Cork University who started his formal education at age 40, after a significant “gap” in his life. Born in Belfast in 1972 at the height of “The Troubles,” Paul recounts growing up in a war zone, where at 21, his home was invaded and his family held hostage. During this attack, he was shot and paralysed, and while physical and medical care were provided, psychological support was not.

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Psychedelics, Hakomi, and the Gift of Self-Discovery, with Tony Hoare

Tony shares his personal journey, from growing up gay in the 60s, to experiencing sexual trauma and seeking healing in his 50s. He views safety, kindness, and gentleness as essential for healing, as they invite us to lower our shields and ‘just be.’ Having worked in the psychedelic world for 2 decades, Tony stresses that profound psychedelic experiences are only valuable if they lead to a greater sense of ease and conscious awareness with which we can navigate our challenging world.

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Menopause: From Estrogen Washing to Societal Silence, with Dr Aisling Quiery & Rati Roberta Riccardi

In this conversation, our guests forge a link between childhood trauma and the severity of menopausal symptoms. Aisling, a GPwho is herself experiencing perimenopause, notes that the menopausal women who consult her often carry immense stress from being “sandwiched” between their peak career responsibilities and caring for children, grandchildren and aging parents. 

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