Charon Normand-Widmer

What is our essence? Why do we need to know? What is ego? Lately, I’ve been invited—nudged, really—into a deeper inquiry, not just for my own evolution but in service to my clients, whose nervous systems and hearts are calling out for something beyond technique or insight. Trauma work often […]

Grief has been one of the most difficult yet transformative experiences of my life. In the past, my instinct was always to avoid it—to distract myself with work, relationships, or external comforts that kept me from truly sitting with my emotions. But the more I tried to outrun sadness, the

Anger is one of the most misunderstood emotions, often feared, suppressed, or expressed destructively. Yet, in my work with clients, I’ve come to see anger as a doorway to deep healing—a messenger that, when approached with awareness, reveals hidden wounds, unmet needs, and deep-seated patterns. Rather than treating anger as

Many struggle with the ups and downs of ADHD, myself included. As a clinician, I see issues with attention not as a simple neurological deficit, but as a dissociative response to stress. When the nervous system becomes overwhelmed, it seeks ways to cope, often by disconnecting from the present moment.

In my experience as a clinician, I’ve found that the most profound gift I can offer my clients isn’t my expertise or solutions—it’s my presence. An empathetic and compassionate abiding presence allows me to hold space for my clients with deep understanding and kindness. It is the art of being

Preface: Trauma affects individuals by causing a loss of response flexibility, disconnection from the self, a constricted worldview, and difficulty staying present. As a therapist, I guide clients to recognize these patterns, helping them reclaim control over their reactions, rebuild self-connection, and expand their perspective of the world. Through mindfulness

Preface: Authentic emotional expression helps us acknowledge and honor our true feelings, leading to greater self-awareness and meaningful connections with others. By embracing vulnerability and sharing emotions openly, we create opportunities for healing, growth, and deeper understanding. This practice allows us to live more fully and authentically, in alignment with

Photo by Daniel Watson Mark Wolynn’s book It Didn’t Begin With You explores the concept that individuals carry the emotional imprints of previous generations, a notion also reflected in Buddhist teachings on interconnectedness. Modern psychology, through ideas like Daniel Siegel’s “Interpersonal Neurobiology” and the study of epigenetics, supports this by

As a therapist, I use Compassionate Inquiry to help clients explore the roots of their emotional pain by focusing on the mind-body connection and the impact of trauma. Compassionate Inquiry® is a psychotherapeutic approach created by Dr. Gabor Maté over several decades while working with both patients and retreat participants.

Sophia sat across from me, her hands fidgeting in her lap. “I just can’t believe my boss yelled at me for missing a deadline,” she said, her voice tight with irritation. “It’s not my fault they never give me enough time. And anyway, who cares about their stupid deadlines?” I