Welcome to the Gifts of Trauma Podcast, stories of transformation and healing through Compassionate Inquiry®.
Season 3
Rethinking Sex Addiction: Trauma, Shame & Compulsive Sexuality, with Diana Safta & Silva Neves
In this conversation, Kevin introduces us to Dr Paul Gallagher, a lecturer in trauma studies at Cork University who started his formal education at age 40,…
Healing Northern Ireland: From Personal Trauma to Societal Change, with Dr Paul Gallagher
Tony shares his personal journey, from growing up gay in the 60s, to experiencing sexual trauma and seeking healing in his 50s. He views safety…
Psychedelics, Hakomi, and the Gift of Self-Discovery, with Tony Hoare
Tony shares his personal journey, from growing up gay in the 60s, to experiencing sexual trauma and seeking healing in his 50s. He views safety…
The Trauma of Infertility, with Leila Bahri-Lucas
In this gentle, heart-felt conversation, Leila guides us through the emotional landscape of infertility debunking common myths and misconceptions…
Menopause: From Estrogen Washing to Societal Silence, with Dr Aisling Quiery & Rati Roberta Riccardi
In this conversation, our guests forge a link between childhood trauma and the severity of menopausal symptoms. Aisling, a GPwho is herself experiencing…
Menopause: From Multitasking Queen to Second Girlhood, with Dr Priya Duggal and Rosio Fuentes
Join us for this wide ranging conversation between a Menopausal Naturopathic doctor and a Therapist who lives with Ehlers Danlos Syndrome…
Menopause Pruning: Clearing Space for Authenticity, with Inés Zabalaga & Kate Hazlitt, ND
This conversation exposes the impact of cultural trauma on Indian mental and emotional well-being and the conflicts these cultural pressures…
Unveiling Indian Cultural Trauma, with Mansi Poddar
This conversation exposes the impact of cultural trauma on Indian mental and emotional well-being and the conflicts these cultural pressures…
Invisible Made Visible: Authenticity, Healing, and Impact, with Barbara Brangan
Our guest, an expert grant writer for charities, social enterprises, and Indigenous organizations, shares her profound transition…
From Wounded Warrior to Universal Illuminator, with Juliano Innocenti, PMHNP, MSN
In this episode, Juliano shares his personal journey from the trauma of in utero addiction and premature birth, to being raised in the foster system…
Peace Activation Begins Within, with Eva Dalak
This conversation explores Eva’s transformative journey from traditional peacework to a trauma-informed, soul-centred approach…
Technology & AI: Benefits & Hazards, with Sat Dharam Kaur, ND
Join us as we explore the overall impact of technology and AI on human attachments, relationships, dependence, skills, wellbeing and our environment…
Resolving Math-Anxiety Through Trauma-Informed Teaching, with Dr Bea Bleile
This conversation explores how academic learning is impacted by a student’s emotional state, prior experiences, and the safety of the learning…
Elevating Consciousness & Healing Through Art & Music, with Ester Martinez
This rich conversation explores many topics, from Ester’s personal and professional journeys, to spiritual mysticism…
Shining Authenticity’s Light into Corporate Leadership, with Lubna Forzley
This heart-felt conversation arcs from the pain of apartness to the healing power of connectedness…
Intimacy, Healing and “Sand in the System,” with Kosha Joubert
This heart-felt conversation arcs from the pain of apartness to the healing power of connectedness…
6 Ingredients of Lasting Love, with Dr Sara Nasserzadeh
This conversation delivers rich insights on the importance of clear communication and intentional maintenance in healthy love relationships…
The Sound of Healing, with Reggie Hubbard
Listen to hear a powerful and playful discourse that flows from racial anger to curiosity, skepticism, critical thinking, surrender and stroke …
Healing Ruptured Connections to Self, Land and Culture, with Sanjog Kaur
Sanjog’s spiritual name means ‘connection.’ In this flowing, deeply connected conversation, Sanjog describes how ‘longing’ helped her…
Khonmadi: Feeling the Heartbeat of Mother Earth, with Dr Ruby Gibson
In this magical conversation, Dr. Ruby shares the launch of The Khonmadi Project, which was inspired by a dream. She has since discovered…
Healing the Trauma of the Heart, with Tiph Fedor
The spiritual journey and process of trauma healing are presented as aligned experiences that unfold together as we progress through…
Finding Chronic Pain Relief in Parts Work, with Terry Baranski
IFS and CI both aim to reconnect individuals with their core Self. Learn how understanding parts’ reality’ roles, and feeling into the…
Claiming Your Power in Perimenopause, with Inés Zabalaga
In this fluid conversation, three women explore multiple perspectives and experiences of menopause and trauma. Inés invites listeners…
Moving from “What’s Wrong?” To “What’s Right?” with Dr Shawn Ginwright
In this paradigm shifting conversation, Shawn shares stories of young people who transformed their lives through community support and aspirational…
I’m All I Wanted to Be. Now What? With Sat Dharam Kaur
This conversation opens with Sat Dharam sharing her realization that her original life goals have been achieved, and asking herself, “What’s next?”…
Season 2
What Happens in Women’s Circles, with Tanya Lynn
In this lively conversation, Tanya reveals why women gather in Circles and the personal growth that can happen when they do…
Longing to Belong, with Christina Bâra
The gentle conversation flows from Cristina’s personal journey to her professional role within the Compassionate Inquiry® organization…
Evoking The Resonant Man, with Jacob Kishere
This deep, esoteric and practical conversation addresses the lack of positive role models and meaningful traditions for men, today…
Enhancing Bodywork & EFT (Tapping) with Compassionate Inquiry, with Pam Sommer
In this intimate, flowing conversation, Pam unravels the interconnections of emotions and physical sensations, particularly pain, in therapeutic settings…
Healing Shutdown, Numbness & Not-Enough Striving, with Irina Sadakova
In this revealing conversation, Irina shares her experience as a child growing up in Soviet Russia, the impact of generational trauma and her journey…
Multicultural & Ancestral Healing Perspectives with Soraya Romao-Inglis
This gentle conversation explores Soraya’s multifaceted approach to therapy which acknowledges personal, cultural, and systemic factors…
The Art of Integrating CI in Relational Trauma Therapy, with Rita Bozi
This nuanced conversation begins with a deep dive into how to heal relational trauma. Rita explains developmental trauma, relational…
Transforming Corporate Organizations into Soulful Workplaces, with Amy Elizabeth Fox
This episode explores the role of trauma awareness in leadership and organizational development. By integrating psycho-spiritual insights…
War Refugees—The Sacrifice of Belonging, with Irma Rubil-Jonatan
IIrma openly shares her childhood experiences during the Bosnian war in the early 1990’s. She addresses how the conflict impacted her family…
Releasing Attachment—Reclaiming Authenticity, with Dr. DaeEss 1Dréa Pennington Wasio
In this inspiring conversation, 1Dréa (formerly known as Dr Andrea Pennington) shares her journey to loving and accepting herself unconditionally…
Addiction’s Collateral Damage To Families & Children, with Andrea Porcelli
In this inspiring, honest conversation, Andrea shares her personal story of healing the pain of addiction within her family. She shares the struggles…
Addicted to Speed & Busyness, with Dr. Wendy Harris
This conversation explores the pain and trauma at the root of the pervasive modern addiction to hustle, speed and busyness. Our guest unpacks the …
Healing Traumatized Masculinity, with Fredrik Wretman
Join us to witness this rare conversation between Kevin Young and Fredrik Wretman, two men who emerged from very different traumatic backgrounds…
Scars Are Goldmines, with Kendra Toothill
Join us on this path to 100% mind-body integrity and wholeness, not by adding more restrictions, ‘health-promoting’ foods or practices, but through…
How Thinking Impacts Health, with Dr Christina Bjorndal, ND
This lively information- and insight-packed conversation explores our mind-body-spirit connection from a holistic health perspective, and delves…
Lifting Depression Through Compassion, with Rhoda Schuling
In this deep dive into Compassion Training and Mindfulness, Rhoda openly shares how these approaches illuminated her own journey with depression…
Compassionate Inquiry Meets Compassionate Love, with Dr Josaine Bonté
The rich, warm conversation demonstrates once again that love, presence, and understanding have the power to transform both individual and collective…
Relationships, Uncoupling and Divorce, with Dr Desirée van den Broek
Join us for a gentle exploration of emotional connection, intimate relationship dynamics and divorce / uncoupling. Our guest, Dr Desirée…
Parenting: A Spontaneous Mutual Unfolding of Potential, with Dr Gordon Neufeld
This lively conversation explores many facets of neurodiversity and how individuals with different neurological wiring engage with the world…
Trauma, Neurodivergence & Compassion, with Dr Louse Taylor
This lively conversation explores many facets of neurodiversity and how individuals with different neurological wiring engage with the world…
Childhood Trauma and ADHD, with Nancy Evans
This informative and deeply personal conversation offers a nuanced understanding of ADHD.1 By integrating personal narratives…
Collective Responsibility Ends Domestic Violence, with Liz Odongo
Join us for this deep dive into the maze of trauma, domestic violence, and the often futile search for vital support services. Liz unravels this complex…
Healing Addiction & Codependence in Community, with Sat Dharam Kaur
In this gentle conversation, Sat Dharam Kaur shares her own personal experiences with addiction and codependency with humility and grace…
From Lonely Demon to Authentic Self Love, with Kevin Young
Join us for a deep, nuanced conversation that roams from Vipassana Meditation, to mindfulness to sensitivity and shame, to embodying spirituality …
Healing Indigenous Colonization Trauma, with Allen Sutherland
Join us for an inspiring and informative interview with Allen Sutherland, an esteemed Anishinaabe Elder, Traditional Knowledge Keeper, Healer…
Trauma-Informed Journalism with Matthew Green
Join us for a fast-paced, and deeply moving interview with Matthew Green, a journalist seeking to illuminate the role of individual, ancestral and collective…
Interrupting Incarceration through Compassion with Brooke Harper
Join us for a passionate and enlightening conversation that explores trauma and systemic issues in the juvenile carceral system. Our guest, Brooke Harper…
The Lifelong Pain of Birth Trauma with Laura Latina and Hannah Betty Idarius
Join us for this candid episode that illuminates little known aspects of the human procreation experience, from conception through…
Shame, Pain and Experiencing Homelessness with Tamara Kowalska
If the plight of the homeless has ever engaged your heart, tune in to this deep, nuanced, honest conversation honed in service to people experiencing…
Exploring Triggers, Pain and Shame with Vimalasara Mason-John
Throughout this interview, Vimalasara emphasizes the importance of mindfulness, compassion and vulnerability in the healing of trauma and transformation of negative self-perceptions.
Trauma Healing Through a Shamanic Lens with Ricardo Assis Rosa, PhD
In this interview, Ricardo explains how he interweaves various therapeutic modalities; Buddhism, Compassionate Inquiry®, Somatic and Shamanic practices, to support unique transformative journeys…
Transforming Survival Into Safety & Presence, with Allison Creech
Societal conditioning and emotional wounding can make our search for authenticity seem daunting. In this episode, Allison unveils the path to authenticity and frames the obstacles we encounter along the way as opportunities for profound healing and reconnection. Imagine a life where you’re present in every moment and…
Season 1
“I Never Saw it Coming” : Illuminating Suicide with Nyana Sabharwal
As more and more of us are chilled by the rapidly expanding shadow of social isolation, we invite you to join us for a rich conversation that weaves one woman’s personal story of bereavement by suicide into broader perspectives. In this episode, Nyana delves deep into the heart…
Alchemizing Inherited Trauma & Marginalization with Rennet Wong-Gates
In this compelling interview, Rennet invites us to witness her transformative journey from immigrating to Canada (from Guyana) without her parents at 17, to navigating the intricacies of her mixed-race identity. The unexpected support of a compassionate doctor who provided emotional solace in one of her toughest times highlights…
Navigating Adoption’s Emotional Turbulence with Sara Easterly
Imagine a life where every day is a journey through complex emotions, punctuated by waves of separation, loss, and longing. For adoptees, this is often their reality—an unruly mosaic of misaligned feelings that demands understanding, support, and resilience. A lack of social awareness around the true experience of…
Compassion in Medicine with Dr Aisling Quiery
Imagine a world where healing goes beyond treating symptoms; a world where healthcare practitioners address the root causes of their patients’ issues. Dr Aisling Quiery’s story brings this vision to life, as she shares her views on shifting the paradigms of patient and healthcare provider well-being, to…
Choosing a Life of Love with Jordan Decker
Jordan brings love and hope to a world yearning for acceptance and authenticity. His courageous exploration of the power of self-love, invites us to unlock the depths of our own hearts and embrace our true selves. Most importantly, he reminds us that choosing love is not just possible…
Compassionate Inquiry® Training: The Origin Story
In 2009, a 504 page book became the catalyst for an extraordinary partnership. Its words not only validated years of experience, but resonated deeply with Sat Dharam. As she read, a powerful intuitive message emerged, urging her to reach out and connect with the author, Gabor Maté…
Expanding Masculinity : From Adrenaline to Authenticity with Steve Borloz
Steve’s story demonstrates the transformative power of radical change as he shares how he risked all to shed false identities, confront his inner demons, and embrace his inner truth, strength and wisdom. In his unwavering pursuit of his truth, Steve’s epic journey took him from loneliness, disconnection…
Truth, Justice & the Healing Power of Grief with Siri Dharma
Imagine a world where your deepest emotions are not just acknowledged, but embraced as catalysts for growth. Siri Dharma combines the wisdom of mindfulness with the power of Compassionate Inquiry® to facilitate the safe exploration of her client’s innermost truths…
Finding Grace and Forgiveness in Connection with Warren McCaig
Warren’s story of overcoming deep-rooted shame, loneliness and isolation highlights our universal human needs for acceptance and connection. His personal journey demonstrates the profound impact of his conservative religious upbringing and shows how he, in recognizing the damaging effects of shame, fundamentalism and inauthenticity, found the people…
Religious Trauma, Addiction and Recovery with Joakim Le Bolloch Appell
Growing up in a highly controlled Jehovah’s Witness religious environment, ever-present fear and judgment shaped Joakim’s early life. At home, his father was an intravenous drug user, his stepfather and Grandfather were alcoholics, and his mother was involved in a cult. These childhood experiences fostered…
Reflecting on the Traumas of Northern Ireland’s Troubles with Stephen Brown
Have you been impacted by a complex and turbulent environment? Are you seeking deeper understanding, healing and growth from those experiences? Look no further than Stephen Brown – an expert guide well-versed in trauma and divisions. Drawing from his first-hand experiences growing up amidst the complex divisions of…
Unlocking Deep Connections Through Compassion with Priya Duggal
In today’s fast-paced world, it’s easy to feel disconnected – from ourselves and from others. But for Priya Duggal, fostering profound connections is the heart of her holistic approach to healing. As a trained medical doctor, Priya mastered the technical aspects of healthcare. However, her journey has…
Masculinity, Porn Addiction & True Intimacy with Luke Sniewski
Are you tired of living life on autopilot, disconnected from the present moment? Imagine waking up each day feeling grounded, centered, and truly alive. Through his unique approach, Luke helps individuals reconnect with the wisdom of their bodies, creating a profound shift in how they experience life and engage…
Exposing the Memories, Stories and Beliefs that Drive Our Behavior with Rhonda Nelson
If you feel stuck in patterns that no longer serve you, or yearn for a deeper sense of purpose and fulfillment, Rhonda’s transformative journey is a powerful testament to both the power of self-discovery and the healing potential that lies within each of us. Her story is…
Podcast Inspiration & Origin Story: A Conversation with Dr Gabor Maté
Nobody should believe that they are damaged goods or beyond healing… there’s nothing wrong with you fundamentally. Everything you feel or believe is wrong with you is actually a response to life experiences and the wounds that you carry can be healed.” These words from renowned trauma expert Gabor Mate…
Podcast Hosts
Rosemary Davies-Janes
Natural Healing Therapist / Authentic Freedom Facilitator, Podcast Manager / Host
Introduced to podcasting in 2002, Rosemary fell in love with its ability to stream wisdom and insights to a global audience. From 02-06 she produced 150+ shows interviewing a spectrum of guests including, Byron Katie, James Redfield, Gary Zukav, David Whyte, Helen LaKelly Hunt, Harville Hendrix & Michael Gerber.
For almost 25 years, Rosemary has worked in the field of Authenticity, helping clients embody authenticity personally, and professionally, via authentic brands. Prior work applied her fine art and psychology training in marketing. After extensive agency work in advertising and branding, she led marketing departments for the Canadian divisions of Toys “R” Us® and Staples®.
In 2021, after discovering Dr. Gabor Maté’s work through The Wisdom of Trauma movie, she dove into Compassionate Inquiry® training and completed her mentorship in 2024.
Rosemary has a global background and enjoys ‘traveling like a local.’ Born in Canada, she grew up in Australia (Geelong, VIC) went to art college in South Africa (Bloemfontein, FS) and moved from Canada to Costa Rica in 2024. She loves being in nature, creating beauty, facilitating authentic expression and mind-body-soul synergy.
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Kevin Young
Life Coach, Compassionate Inquiry Practitioner, Podcast Host
Kevin is a truth seeker from Co. Down in Ireland. He is passionate about people, healing, happiness and encouraging compassionate connection.
Kevin is fascinated by the human condition; what are we, who are we and where are we? He is navigating a path back to wholeness and believes that the best way to do this is to “Know thyself”.
Kevin is a Compassionate inquiry facilitator, educator, circle leader and steward, and has a private practice working with individuals and organizations from all over the world. Kevin also teaches meditation and delivers immersive sound bathing experiences.
He is currently working towards his Bodhisattva vows with his local Buddhist center in Belfast.
A lover of music, poetry, conscious conversation and spiritual growth. His favorite word is ‘awe’.
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J’aime Rothbard
Women’s Transformational Coach, Podcast Producer / Host
The question I have set out to understand in my life is : How do people heal their pain? I have lived in 4 different countries and traveled incredibly, navigating the cultural implications and nuances of this inquiry. I have worked along a breathtaking range of environments serving people – paid and underpaid – accumulating comprehension over three decades.
A key learning came in 2006 when I was the co-founder of a non-profit organization, advocating for survivors of domestic violence. I offered spoken word and poetry workshops in domestic violence shelters in Washington, DC.
Witnessing women access their creativity as a tool to connect with their inner pain and speak about their lives taught me a great deal about what transformation can look like. It taught me that evolution can occur on individual and collective levels simultaneously when the right platform is created to support it.
I continued creating messaging campaigns to educate the general public about the dynamics of intimate partner violence until I became a mother in 2013. My education and advocacy approach shifted to helping people perceive their individual health with the context of our food system and the health of our planet. My work spanned more extensive volunteering and began my foray into podcasting in 2016.
Today I am a mother, women’s transformational coach, podcast producer and poetic storyteller. It has been an answer to a deep lifelong prayer to discover Compassionate Inquiry as a tool to help lead people to the source of their pain and, ultimately, back into themselves and their truth.